Well I Recently watched a film called “How to Date an Otaku Girl”
And i thought to myself, ‘hmmm wouldnt it be cool if i wrote out a small list of rules to stick to when dating an Otaku/Fujoshi (Yaoi Fan girl) girl?’ So thats what im going to do, Maybe afterwards ill do one on how to date an Otaku Guy :3
Im not compleatly sure if this is going to be for Otaku guys who have an Otaku girlfriend or just regular guys who have an Otaku Girlfriend but just read it anyhu lol
4 Main Rules when Dating a Otaku/Fujoshi
4. Cosplay with her once in a while.
Even if you dont like Dressing up as Anime characters and/or you just like taking photos of them or whatever. I can bet you any money that she really wants you to dress up as the male character to one of her favourite parings just so she can be the female side. An Example or two would be, You Cosplaying as Sesshoumaru so she could be Kagome… okay maybe that was a bad example as there not exactly a canon pairing in Inuyasha… but still.. okay another, You Cosplay Hinata, and She Cosplays Yui, Or Vincent and Yuffie (YES THEY ARE CANON DAMNIT!) Or Otonashi and Tachibana(Tenshi) or Hibari and Tsuna… >.> had to add the complimentary Yaoi one in there just incase :P… and yes i know there are two angel beats refernces… but its in my head atm lol.
3. Treat her once in a while.
If she suddlenly spot something and start squeeling like mad, then sighs and puts it down, Or she continually go on about wanting a certain figure or manga, It probably means she really wants it but either cant buy it cause shes out of money or she needs to buy something else so she cant buy it, I suggest either buying it for her after shes vacated the area and hide it till later and surprise her or take not of what it is and get if for her for her birthday/Christmas (after making sure she hasnt already got it of course) She will appricaiate it so much and Good things shall come! ;). This rule is kind of a General Girl rule, weather shes an Otaku or not doesnt really matter with this one.
2. Shoujo Manga / Anime
The Majority of Otaku Girls like to try and relate to the girls in Shoujo Manga/ Anime. I suggest, Watching some Shoujo Anime or reading some manga, and Taking notes of some of the guys actions, Likes hugs from behind the whispering sweet things into her ear like ‘you look really cute in that outfit’ or soemthing along those lines, always get a girls hear racing. Or Maybe if your home alone, Pressing her against the wall and Looking into her eyes then kissing her…*has a stupid grin on her face* seriously just imagining it makes my heart go off on one. ^^ Just check out some Mangas or Animes (tho i suggest Manga…cause i can reccomend ones then :P) and look at the romance scenes, and if then Check out some JDramas or KDramas :3
1. Yaoi (Fujoshi)
Most Female Otaku’s are Fujoshi’s as well Which for those who have no idea what the term means (as i didnt just untill yesterday xD even though i am one myself) “Fujoshi (腐女子, lit. “rotten girl”) is a pejorative Japanese term for female fans of manga and novels that feature romantic relationships between men. Fujoshi enjoy imagining what it would be like if male characters from manga and anime, and occasionally real-life male performers as well, loved each other” (Totally Copied that from Wikipedia lol) Even if you dont like it, Just try to except it. If you dont mind it, then sit down and watch it once in a while with her or Read one of her books so that when she starts going on about it it you at least understand whats shes saying and can maybe even throw in your own comments?
Anyway Those are my Rules when Dating a Female Otaku/ Fujoshi. Ill see if i can do one for How to Date an Otaku Boy too ^^
Hope You enjoyed it 🙂